Thank you for the song. I kind of lost track of Jewel after she played Lilith Fair. I should fix that.

I am a combative person by nature, and had a long slow process of learning to respect that that was not the only way to be (I'm not sure I'm quite done yet, either). There is time for choosing aggression later, but once you have chosen it for the beginning, folks who are sensitive are already not listening to you.